If we truly believe that God surrounds us, we believe that prayer is an everyday experience of being alive…. When you step outside and engage with the world in quiet listening, prayer will happen, and it will take on its own way of being for you.—Kaitlin Curtice

Last night I drove my kids to San Jose to see my hometown Philadelphia Flyers play against the Sharks. I was raised as a big ice hockey fan, and I am proud to pass along that enthusiasm to my children. Although the Flyers lost, we enjoyed this annual ritual yet again. Simply sitting still together for several hours felt relaxing!

Many of this week’s Gospel readings focus on the invitational aspect of Jesus’ ministry. Some refer to these stories as Jesus’ table fellowship. Often Jesus explicitly invites the outcast, the downtrodden, and the marginalized to join him for a meal. This public invitation was counter-cultural, and likely contributed to Jesus’ execution. Jesus’ example informs my own vision of heaven, where each and every person is welcome and treated as an honored guest. This inclusive feast will one day be realized in the Kingdom of God.

The danger of privilege is that we can tell ourselves we’ve opened our tables when we really haven’t. We’ve changed some rules; we’ve donated to some charities; we’ve stoped telling some jokes. But these things are not nearly enough. The challenge and opportunity for those of us with privilege is to realize that no matter how much we work to invite others to the table, ‘there is still room’ for more.” – Nick Wagner

Together let us be grateful for the privilege of life. Enjoy the quote below and a Tiny Desk concert from one of my favorite blues artists. Blessings on your week ahead!

Gratitude is more than a reflex ‘thank you’ when someone holds a door for you. Gratitude is a spiritual practice that embraces life’s tension-flexing web of relationships and actions, like those that occur every day, all through the day.” -Tim Joy, Lasallian Colleague

Life has a way of tenderizing you. -David Brooks

This morning on my early walk I encountered a fellow walker, who described how his activity first thing each morning alleviates some of the pain caused by his Parkinson’s disease. I listened with admiration as I marveled at his perspective. He expressed deep gratitude for the gift of his daily walk, and for me that similar sentiment was magnified by my interaction with him, a perfect stranger up to that point. I am blessed.

Yesterday my wife shared with me a wonderful lesson from a podcast we follow together. In a recent episode of We Can Do Hard Things, Brigid learned of key qualities of healthy relationships…they are:

  • Stable
  • Positive
  • Reciprical

I thought to myself, “What a powerful approach to forging and sustaining friendships!”

Then last night my YouTube algorithm populated my feed with this fantastic Tiny Desk concert. Enjoy the soul-filled funk as you work, exercise, or meditate. Blessings on your week ahead!

Let us open wide our hearts. It is joy which invites us. Press forward and fear nothing. -St. Katharine Drexel

Today I enjoyed reading this interview here with Sr. Stephanie Henry. I am learning more about her religious order, the Sisters of the Blessed Sacrament. Below is an impressive excerpt from her comments:

“We are called to open our hearts to God and to other people. God is inviting us to joy. Responding to God and caring for others brings joy. When we have open hearts filled with God’s love, we can move into the future with compassion and mercy for all we encounter. There is no need to be overwhelmed by fear. We are not alone.”

I also viewed one of my favorite Pearl Jam songs, “Elderly Woman Behind the Counter in a Small Town.” Singer Eddie Vedder’s range is powerful. Enjoy and blessings on your week ahead!

It takes time and intention to recongize the generosity of God in everyday signs of wonder and beauty. -Kathy Hendricks

I appreciate this time each year when life (finally) feels like we’re settling into a groove…at home we have had just enough weeks of consistent afterschool sports practices, combined with enough time with our kids getting to know new teachers…to feel like we (sort of) have things together. Yesterday my daughter marveled at the teamwork of the construction crew working together on our backyard remodel…while my youngest son researched Halloween costumes…and my oldest son provided insightful commentary on Bob Marley’s rhythm section while listening to music as he completed his homework. I cherish these moments at home amidst a full work travel schedule for me throughout this fall.

Bob Marley- Three Little Birds (Everything’s Gonna Be All Right)

I am happy to share this link to a refreshing reminder to “Savor the Season,” in what we notice and how we spend our time. Below is the list excerpted from the reflection. Blessings on your week ahead!

  • Choose a favorite place to walk or sit—perhaps a path through the woods, a bench in the park, or a comfortable spot in your home.
  • Grab a warm beverage.
  • Turn off your phone.
  • Shelve your “To Do” list for the moment.
  • Using your five senses, take stock of the gifts of the present moment.
  • Breathe deeply. How does the air feel filling your lungs?
  • Look around you. What catches your eye?
  • What do you hear?
  • Are there any distinctive scents in this moment?
  • How is that cup of coffee or tea?
  • What do you feel as you encounter this moment?
  • What gifts are you noticing?
  • Linger in this moment.
  • Savor the Love that is creating this moment and all that it holds.
  • What would you like to say to the One who is breathing life into this moment?

Start by doing what’s necessary; then do what’s possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible. -Francis of Assisi

This past weekend our family attended the Hardly Strictly Bluegrass festival in Golden Gate Park. This free annual event is a San Francisco treasure. I am pleased to share a performance by artist Leyla McCalla, who we were introduced to on Saturday. I also share some prayer resources that have come my way recently.

Blessings on your week ahead!

Excerpt from “House of Hospitality” and “From Union Square to Rome”

Dorothy Day

People say, “What good can one person do? What is the sense of our small effort?” They cannot see that we must lay one brick at a time. We can be responsible only for the one action of the present moment. But we can beg for an increase of love in our hearts that will vitalize and transform all our individual actions and know that God will take them and multiply them, as Jesus multiplied the loaves and the fishes. Do what comes to hand. Whatsoever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might. After all, God is with us. It shows too much conceit to trust to ourselves, to be discouraged at what we ourselves can accomplish. It is lacking in faith in God to be discouraged. After all, we are going to proceed with His help. We offer Him what we are going to do. If He wishes it to prosper, it will. We must depend solely on Him. Work as though everything depended on ourselves, and pray as though everything depended on God, as St. Ignatius says.

Genius is in the idea. Impact comes from action. -Simon Sinek

Last week I was privileged to enjoy time in the New Orleans area with our school leaders. Learning and growing alongside them is one of the best parts of my job. Speaking of learning, last night I played my guitar for the first time in a while and I learned a new chord configuration…thirty years in, part of the joy I experience with this hobby is how never-ending the learning curve is. That’s a nice metaphor for life.

Today I share two articles that have informed my thinking in the past week. Nine Ways to Fill Your Cup When You’re Running on Empty reminded me of the importance of staying grounded, especially during this busy fall season with my kids’ schools and our work commitments. Listening with Franciscan Ears is a nod to both my passion for music and also my appreciation for the example of Saint Francis of Assisi. Happy early feast of Saint Francis (October 4).

Last night my son and I heard this song, “Winding Roads,” for the first time on our way home from soccer practice. It’s authors are among some of my favorites, with the last names of Marley, Weir and Johnson. You can read more about their creative process here:

Stephen Marley Discusses Bob Weir And Jack Johnson Collaboration ‘Winding Roads’.

Enjoy and blessings on your week ahead!

On The Fine Art of Weeding- Christine Rodgers

The further in you go

the more you prune away

the thicker it grows back.

Such diligence required

to keep a path

cleared for God.

Today’s Gospel reading from Luke speaks for itself. Jesus provides such a meaningful framework for life and relationships in this teaching. Blessings on your week ahead!

The Beatitudes

20 And he lifted up his eyes on his disciples, and said:

“Blessed are you who are poor, for yours is the kingdom of God.

21 “Blessed are you who are hungry now, for you shall be satisfied.

“Blessed are you who weep now, for you shall laugh.

22 “Blessed are you when people hate you and when they exclude you and revile you and spurn your name as evil, on account of the Son of Man! 23 Rejoice in that day, and leap for joy, for behold, your reward is great in heaven; for so their fathers did to the prophets.

24 “But woe to you who are rich, for you have received your consolation.

25 “Woe to you who are full now, for you shall be hungry.

“Woe to you who laugh now, for you shall mourn and weep.

26 “Woe to you, when all people speak well of you, for so their fathers did to the false prophets.

Love Your Enemies

27 “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 

28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. 

29 To one who strikes you on the cheek, offer the other also, and from one who takes away your cloak do not withhold your tunic[b] either. 

30 Give to everyone who begs from you, and from one who takes away your goods do not demand them back. 

31 And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them.

Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you. -Anne Lamott

This past weekend my family and I escaped to the beach with three other families, as part of a Labor Day tradition where we’ve had the blessing to witness each of our ten total children grow in their relationships with one another, and in their appreciation for the beautiful setting of Cailfornia’s Central Coast. There were multiple nights of campfires, guitar music and singalongs, and a beautiful experience of community and belonging. Thank God for family, friendships, and nature…and the privilege of time away.

I am pleased to share Dave Matthews’ recent tribute to Jimmy Buffet, along with a powerful poem on journey and voice by Mary Oliver. Blessings on your week ahead!

Mary Oliver
The Journey
One day you finally knew what you had to do, and began,
though the voices around you kept shouting their bad advice —
though the whole house began to tremble and you felt the old tug at your ankles. “Mend my life!” each voice cried. But you didn’t stop.
You knew what you had to do,
though the wind pried with its stiff fingers at the very foundations,
though their melancholy was terrible.
It was already late enough, and a wild night,
and the road full of fallen branches and stones.
But little by little, as you left their voice behind,
the stars began to burn through the sheets of clouds,
and there was a new voice which you slowly recognized as your own,
that kept you company as you strode deeper and deeper into the world,
determined to do the only thing you could do —
determined to save the only life that you could save.

Spirituality is recognizing and celebrating that we are inextricably connected to each other by a power greater than all of us, and that our connection to that power and to one another is grounded in love and compassion. – Brené Brown

I recently started reading Braving the Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone, by one of my favorite authors/speakers/thinkers, Brené Brown. I have been leading workshops on “Belonging” in our schools of late, and this resource is a great add to my toolkit. Dr. Brown’s Ted Talk on “The Power of Vulnerability” transformed my leadership style over a decade ago. I highly recommend you view it here if you’re not familiar with this insightful, entertaining and thoughtful presentation.

Dr. Brown’s book introduced me to a style of bluegrass music that I was previously unfamiliar with- High Lonesome Bluegrass. Below is a link to a song called “Gloryland,” which aligns with my vision of the Kingdom of God. This vision involves a sacred place where all are welcome…are happy..and belong.

I am pleased to share the below prayer for your reflection. I hope we can all carve out the space and time to listen, unclutter, and recognize God’s beauty…I was able to do so this past weekend, with a visit to the Dahlia Garden at Golden Gate Park with my family (depicted above). Blessings on your week ahead!

A Prayer for Discernment
Lord, help me now to unclutter my life,
to organize myself in the direction of simplicity.
Lord teach me to listen to my heart;
teach me to welcome change, instead of fearing it.
Lord, i give you these stirrings inside me,
I give You my discontent,
I give You my restlessness,
I give You my doubt,
I give You my despair,
I give You all the longings I hold inside.
Help me to listen to these signs of change, of growth;
to listen seriously and follow where they lead
through the breathtaking empty space of an open door.

Common Prayer Pocket Edition: A Liturgy for Ordinary Radicals
Paperback – February 11, 2012
by Shane Claiborne (Author) and Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove (Author)

If we need a miracle to take us to the place of freedom, it happens when we trust God to heal what we cannot. -Sr. Jeana Visol, OSB

Mad World

It’s been a whirlwind of a week at home as we settled into new routines associated with school, music lessons and the seasons of football, soccer and volleyball. I also traveled for the first part of the week and so instead of tri-locating among her work and two different sports practices, Brigid helped our kids learn new bus routes to “keep all the plates spinning.” We’re having a lot of fun; after a great summer each of us are excited to be back in action with school, work and friends.

This week I share several resources I’ve stumbled upon in recent days; the YouTube video is a fantastic, mandolin-enriched cover of a favorite of my songs. The image I found on Twitter – and along with the quote- they remind us of God’s awesome care for us. And the spoken word below comes from Richard Rohr’s Center for Contemplation in Action, another of my go-to sources for reflection.

Blessings on your week ahead!

I’m Here, I’m Listening

Spoken word poet Amena Brown responds to the question, “How do you know when you’re hearing from God?” 

She said, “How do you know when you are hearing from God?”  
I didn’t know how to explain … 
My words never felt so small, so useless, so incapable  

I wanted to say  
Put your hand in the middle of your chest 
Feel the rhythm there 
I wanted to say you will find the holy text in so many places 
On crinkly pages of scripture 
In dusty hymnals 
In the creases of a grandmother’s smile 

God’s ears are here for the babies 
For the immigrant, for the refugee 
For the depressed, for the lonely 
For the dreamers 
The widow, the orphan 
The oppressed and the helpless 
Those about to make a mess or caught in the middle of cleaning one up 
Dirt don’t scare God’s ears 
God is a gardener 
God knows things can’t grow without sun, rain, and soil … 

I want to tell her God is always waiting  
Lingering after the doors close  
And the phone doesn’t ring  
And we are finally alone  
God is always saying  
I love you  
I am here  
Don’t go, stay  
Please  

I try to explain how God is pleading with us  
To trust  
To love  
To listen  
That God’s voice is melody and bass lines and whisper and thunder and grace  

Sometimes when I pray, I think of her  
How the voice of God was lingering in her very question  
How so many of us just like her  
Just like me  
Just like you  
Are still searching  
Still questioning, still doubting  
I know I don’t have all the answers  
I know I never will  
That sometimes the best thing we can do is put our hands in the middle of our chest  
Feel the rhythm there  
Turn down the noise in our minds, in our lives  
And whisper,  
God  
Whatever you want to say  
I’m here  
I’m listening 

Amena Brown, “She said, ‘How do you know when you are hearing from God?’,” in A Rhythm of Prayer: A Collection of Meditations for Renewal, ed. Sarah Bessey (New York: Convergent Books, 2020), 7, 8, 9, 10–11. Used with permission of author.